We all love some good head. Whether you're a dude or not, there's few things better than having a smokin' hot person go down and to town on your genitals. Something about seeing them from that angle up above pleasuring you with their mouth is hot, and just about every guy loves getting their dick sucked. But if you're the recipient, what's it like for the head-giver? Do women like giving oral sex? We're here to answer the age old question of, "It was good for me, was it good for you?" and we think you'll be happy with the answer.
What is oral sex?
As you probably know, oral is sex in mouthy, tonguey, licky, sucky form. For the purposes of this piece, oral is going to be referring to blowjobs. Imagine a babe getting down on her knees and stoking you, revealing your cock, licking her lips in anticipation, putting her gorgeous lips around you, licking and sucking until... wait- let's not get too distracted! So yeah, blowjobs. It's a joy to get them, but is the giving just as good?
Do women enjoy giving oral sex?
There's a lot of reasons why giving head can be just as fulfilling as getting it. For one, it's excellent foreplay, a great way to get your partner riled up and ready for fucking. It's intimate, sexy, and when you're sucking dick it's almost a powerful experience, because you know that you are fully in control of providing your partner with the pleasure (or the teasing) that they desire. Many women love the feeling of a thick cock in their mouth, and would love to spend their time sucking away. Of course, there's always personal preferences for reasons the ladies might not be so down with going down. These could be things like getting lockjaw, having braces, or disliking things being in their mouth. However, there are certain steps you can take to make sure you're being an A+ dome recipient and ease your honey's dick-sucking side effects.
What you can do before getting oral sex
Before getting head, the most important thing is to make sure you're squeaky clean. No one wants a funky rod in their mouth, so hop in the shower and grab that bar soap! Give it a good rub, and you're good to go. Next, make sure the setting for your blowjob is both arousing and comfortable. I mean, sure, it can be super hot to have your one night stand blow you in a club bathroom, but we're getting fancy here! For maximum comfort, try sitting on a nice chair or on the couch and make sure the flooring isn't too rough on her knees, because she's about to put in some work. Lay down a rug or maybe even try a blowjob while you're laying down. Her doggy position as she's bobbing over you is a great view! Lastly, show your enthusiasm but don't be pushy. Moans and groans go a long way to show your girl that you're loving what she's got, but don't thrust into her throat or push her head down (unless of course, she's into that!), you are a lucky man receiving the gift of blowjobs and you want to make sure the gal knows that. It makes the experience way more pleasurable for both of you.
And ladies... in case you're reading, here's some things that you can do to give amazing blowjobs!
First, relax. Putting a big dick in your mouth is no small feat, so make sure your jaw, mouth, and throat are loosened up and ready. If you're prone to lockjaw, there's small stretches you can do, or choose to limit the blowjob to an opening act, not the main event. You don't have to suck dick until he cums every time, in fact, he might get so turned on halfway through that he decides to flip you over and fuck you senseless! Second, use your lips. This tip helps a lot if you're having orthodontic work done. Blowjobs are not about teeth anyways, so braces, Invisalign, or not, there's no reason to worry because your lips should do the talking, metaphorically. Wrap them around that cock and go to town. And really important, don't be afraid to spice it up! Alternate between sucking the shaft and the tip, give him some jazz hands, deepthroat a little- have fun and add your own special flair and you'll give him head you'll enjoy, and that will live in his head, rent free.